Referral time again

Its getting close to the time of month that refererrals arrive. Rumors are stating we should know by next week. It would be great for them to surprise us with a whole months worth of LID's. If they began to do 1 month worth of LID's a month we would have 12 more months to wait. If it continues at 2 weeks then it will be a full 2 years more we will have to wait. Christian has stopped talking about his baby sister, which is probably good. It's hard to explain to a three year old why mommy and daddy talk about his baby sister but he hasn't met her yet. At first I told him when he was 4 she would come home, now I tell him maybe when he's 5. Its not fair to him and so I'm trying not to talk about her around him.

We've been waiting 4 months

What can I say...... I have no idea how long we will be waiting but I have a feeling it will be much longer than we expected. We've been staying busy with Christian and work and trying to make more time for friends. Referral are trickling out at a very slow speed. Since we've started waiting I think they have barely made it through 2 months worth. We are, at least, 2 years away if things continue.